ok Neal..
Real glad it wasnt anything dark..
I have this situation where everything I say ar do (at home) seems to be so incredibly twisted that, at times, I wonder if its actually me whos mad - Fortunately, it is only one person who (probably deliberately) gets me to doubt my sanity at times .. but those words:
"I'm a liar who doesnt care about other people"...
well - you could hardly have found a better line to push my "red alert" button and get me to wonder if perhaps the ferengi I live with wasnt just a cruel sick parasite, but that I might unknowingly be giving her justifiable reasons for "misunderstandings".
As for humour - that, my children,and music, are the thin threads which keep me dangling above the abyss.. So I do appreciate (or at least understand reasons for) your attemps at humour, LOL ;-)
Fred.
"Hey, that's what "LOL" was invented for!" - Coalport
Yeah, it certainly helps! If there had been a LOL I would still have been puzzled and a bit disturbed by that posting - And had I not just posted a comment on you tube where I used the word "liar" (a word I rarely use anywhere - in fact, this was probably the first time I have ever done so on-line) - then I just might have seen the 'joke'.
But this whole episode did get me thinking - about on-line exchanges and autism.. I have a couple of autistic friends who have landed themselves in on sorts of shit on-line - One of these friends is not severely autistic (you wouldnt know he was autistic if you hadnt expierienced the disorder - at times he just comes over as a bit thoughtless or 'dim') but is drawn chatrooms and forums and gets terribly upset by how his online "friends" sometimes treat him... Shows how dim I can be that, until this episode, I never made the connection --- (some / most) Autistics have a real problem in communication - even when all the cues are available, they cannot determine the emotional states of others accurately.. There could probably hardly be a worse arena for some autistics than the www - No visual cues, no intonations, abreviations which are ambiguous, and trolls roving about picking stupid fights.
Not sure though whether the lack of these "cues" disadvantages "normals" or autistics more.. But from what I have seen, they are more effected by what happens on-line than "normals" are.