Amey - Is your album/s on sale somewhere? Can people buy it? How much does a legal download cost?
I am just wondering how many of the (20,000) people who downloaded your album as a freebie were aware of a legal means of obtaining it - many people download albums from artists they are not "sure" of, just to evaluate the music - one cannot know how many of these downloads are retained once the downloader has listened to the album.
And yes - there are (many) people who wont pay a penny if they can get something free by stealing it without risk - but there are also many who will pay what THEY feel is a fair price.
This all goes back to one of the problems discussed in this thread - The problem of "buying blind" without having a chance of listening to the "product" before handing over the money being a big one - If I had to pay even £1 for every album I had listened to and then rejected, I would not have been able to afford to buy the albums I liked, bought and kept!
At the end of the day, you probably cannot stop illegal stealing of your work - Perhaps if you were with a major label like Sony, they would do the legal work to prevent (or reduce) this theft - but you would pay for it by the tiny revenues they give the artists.
As I see it, getting worked up about the $20,000 you have "lost" had you recieved $1 per download, is wasted energy - the numbers are a fiction - If these downloaders had been forced to pay $1 per download, probably less than 1/10th of them would have downloaded your album.. I know people who have their PC's streaming data continuously from "sharing" sites - grabbing gigs of audio, film, software which they pack onto terrabyte drives - They are quite sick individuals - cleptomaniacs - It would take them a lifetime to go through the stuff they have already downloaded, let they download more..
Sadly, I know many of these people - mostly they are an "IT Crowd" from the days when I was a programmer - they work in large IT establisments, and have a home PC setup with a bank of servers running flat out.. One of these friends visited a few weeks ago and saw my children playing their Nintendo DS games - a few days later I recieved a 1TB drive in the post from him, and when I phoned him he told me that this drive contained every DS game that had ever been published, told me where I could obtain a card which adapted the DS to accept SD memory cards, and how to download the games onto this.... He had just downloaded this stuff as part of his crazy obsession - he never had kids or a DS! - I sent the drive back (a real bother having to pay the postage!) My kids play enough damn games, and id rather pay and have the ability to vet what they get than have some bloody dongle and the possibility of the kids downloading crap as they get older.
You may have "lost" $2000 (even this much is highly unlikely I think) - Best to see this as publicity costs and not get bitter about it.. Money like this is just "Monopoly" money - it never had any reality, and thinking about how you could have spent this money will only damage you and your art, IMO.
Fred.