Perhaps its time for an article in the technical repository here at TW that deals with grounding and capacitance - An article that starts simply, so that non technical readers can understand it, but perhaps goes deeper for those who are interested.
It seems to me that many of the questions here at TW relate to this matter - it would be nice IMO to have a link that can be pasted whenever one of these comes up, rather than needing to go over the same ground again and again, and get the same dumb arguments posted again and again by those who don't understand but perhaps think they do.
I would be happy to write such an article - but think my doing so would be like a red rag to a bull, so would prefer the article to be vetted and "approved" by some technically competent TW members before its "sanctified" by inclusion on TW.. In my view, such "vetting" needs to be done regardless of who the author is.
In my view, there are some basics of theremin operation which are 99.999% "confirmed" - they are not "factoids" they are facts - in the same way that the laws of thermodynamics are 'facts' - Even accepting that the precision of these facts are not 'absolute' they are facts for all practical purposes.
Without understanding how the player capacitively interacts with ground and the theremin, or understanding that it is "plate" area, not mass, which defines capacitive coupling inside and outside of the theremin, players and constructors cannot understand how things work or why they work, and are lost when things dont work.
I feel that its time TW took its roll in educating people and dispelling the needless mystery some seem intent on cultivating.
Fred.